Friday, October 17, 2014




Self Reflection

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.


Find the one that makes your heart smile. There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!

Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.

Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
I AND MY NEW DAY


The sun has begun to set and I hang up the smile I've worn all day. Though I will make sure it is the first thing I put back on in the morning because just in case it is 'that day,' I want her to see me at my very best. 

I do the normal routine, eat dinner, clean the house, write -- the usual stuff. 

And then I lay down hoping to fall asleep quickly so my new day will hurry up and arrive. A new day with a brand new sun. 

But as I lay there and wait for the world to turn half way around, I think about her. And sometimes I smile, and sometimes that smile will turn into a snicker, and then often that snicker will turn into a burst of laughter. 

And then there are times I get that lump in my throat and that tight feeling in my chest, and sometimes that feeling overwhelms me and begins to turn into a tear, and often that tear multiplies itself and I can no longer fight the feeling and I lose the battle. . 


When I awake it's with such excitement! Because I tell myself this could be the day that every other day has led up to and the first day of the rest of my life. I quickly dawn my smile, because I do so want her to see me at my very best. Then I look out the window even though I know it's dawn, but I still have to confirm I've been given another chance to find her.

And there it is ... the sun, even when it's cloudy; somehow I still see it. And it smiles at me and I say "thank you" and I smile back.

Then I ask myself, "Is this the day?" And the excitement rushes over me again. And then I ask myself, "Where's it going to be?"

Maybe it'll be at the water fountain and unexpectedly there I'll find myself and much more than my thirst will be quenched
Maybe it'll be at the grocery store, and there i appear as I'm picking out fruit and i show me the difference between fresh and spoiled. Then from that moment, nothing that I will eat will ever taste the same. Because i bring out the simplest beauties in everything I see, taste, smell, hear, or touch.

Or maybe today will be the day when my hope brings an item up to the cash register without its price tag. And as I wait behind this hope with all the frustrated people who are in such a hurry about their busy lives, I will find myself with such blessed extra time. Just enough time to start a conversation with this beautiful vision standing behind me that I might not otherwise would have noticed..

So will today be the day I say, "THANK YOU GOD!" Thank you for the sun, which began my new day. Thank you for granting me the faith when I arose this morning that I would find me in this new day. But most of all, thank you for me not having to ever wait on another sunrise. Because whenever I want to see it, I will look at myself and there it shall always be, in my eyes, i will forever hold it for me.

i m my sunrise, my dawn, my new day.


pallavi.

Sunday, October 12, 2014

Helloooooo every one

Have you all beautiful ppl ever taught that what was your best part off life or which were the best days of our life....
I when ever closed my I taught off those days when life's most complex choice was Akkad  Bakkad bambey bo !!!!!!! 
When passing railways crossing was counting bogies of the train .... And waving hand n saying bye bye. Tata Tata to unknown tralvers ....
When rains meant getting wet n trying to bunk school...
Making paper boats...
its all a past journey which was full off adventure....it makes us cry ....laugh .... Miss few ... N at end a sweet smile on each one off us face...
Come hold my hand so that I can take you all dear ones in this trip.....
Trip off golden eara.... Before you start reading my work a hearty thank you to you all... For spending your precious hours and days with me...


I m not relating this story to you all
Were as its your story...
You all will find your self in each page...
Its interesting for me to recall my childhood and miss you all....
I m sure you all used to think
That y v r so small ...
When v vl grow up n b young n go to college ....n at time off college v taught when v vl go to office n earn....
But I feel its been decade I m earning money handling responsibility... N feel y the he'll I grow up..... I was more happy when I was kid...
And many off you feel same...
 
Earning money is sooo good but it still can't give us  that happiness which v got by saving our pocket money ...
Now I feel finishing home work was lot more easier to fulfil than the present expectations off twenty different things at work at home....
Childhood days r extremely special.. I m sure you too feel the same....